Relationships are struggling as COVID-19 spreads. Some are virtually nonexistent; loved ones are in quarantine or terrified of public places. Others are evolving virtually.
Physical intimacy has taken a nosedive for some. Luisa Tam of the South China Morning Post highlights how many are avoiding physical contact, even casual touches such as a hug or handshake.
“Humans are designed to be close and intimate with one another, and being touched is what most of us want in a romantic relationship or even close friendship,” said Tam.
Although experts do not believe the virus can be transmitted sexually, COVID-19 can be transmitted through kissing, since it is a respiratory illness. If you have or think you may have coronavirus, it is recommended that you isolate yourself until fevers subside for at least 72 hours before having sex. The absence of this physical touch over extended periods of time is detrimental to emotional health and well-being. Sex might help relieve some stress during these difficult times, but other options, such as sexting and video calls, remain options.
However, in the midst of a health emergency, some relationships are becoming deeper than ever before. This is a chance for deeper communication, which is a practice shown to enhance intimacy.
“People who previously might have just jumped into sex on a first date can view this as a chance to take things slowly, get to know each other better before taking things to the next level,” said Relationship Expert Valentina Tudose.
Courtesy of @hollyconroyx on Twitter
If all the news about the coronavirus has you isolated or even lonely, some people have found the answer: online dating. On The Real Daytime, the hosts discussed a recent study that found that people are using dating apps more amongst the COVID-19 pandemic. There are nearly 26% of new users claiming the virus as their motivation for using the app.
Although having an online relationship because of coronavirus may sound like a solution to some in the quarantine time, it is killing intimacy. According to The New York Times, coronavirus can be transmitted through kissing.
Twitter user @hollyconroyx shared a screenshot about the dating app Tinder, warning users about COVID-19.
“Going to need to wash a lot more than their hands after meeting someone on (Tinder),” said @hollyconroyx.
